By day, I am a rogue instructor in the industry of yoga; with a firm belief that education engenders embodiment, I enjoy teaching people geeky anatomy factoids that help them exist more realistically inside of their own bodies. What’s often missed is the sheer simplicity of slow practice: being upside down for longer than a moment and down on the floor in the grit, where the only way to experience a vast universe is to halt completely.
I’ve always been interested in kink and desire. As an adult, I understand kink as a practice: an accurate reflection of the deepest parts of ourselves that really just want a little air time. A sensualist by nature, I find the world of BDSM to be a natural extension of my erotic expression, a rich landscape in which to explore not just the body but, the mind and heart as well.
Tough Love is Still Love…
As a bodywork professional, I am well versed in what it means to create and hold an experience for another person; I do it all the time. It’s why I so deeply appreciate the moments in which control is ‘taken’ from me. I find that the tools, costumes, and props of the kink world are useful instruments which can amplify and enhance expressions of our alter-egos.
I am particularly inclined to enjoy sessions that utilize range and leave me feeling well-used: the symphony of hard thuds and a soft trail of fingers, the dance between a playful will and the surrender of submitting to a Master’s orders.
Trail your fingers lightly over my skin after delivering just a couple more thuds than I think I can take…
Use a firm, relaxed hand to direct the thick parts of my body and watch how I begin to melt …
I want to feel out of control yet safe; well-used but not destroyed, lost and simultaneously found.
I LIKE: sensation play, impact play (floggers, paddles, hands, etc), hair pulling, throat handling/choking, biting/nibbling, creative role play, archetypal BDsM, shibari & rope bondage, sensory deprivation, obedience training, tease & denial, objectification, face & breast-slapping, body worship, games and predicaments, and delights yet unknown.
MY HARD LIMITS: play that breaks skin or leaves welts, blood or scat play, heavy nipple torture, emotional sadism, or play with non-consenting participants.
Our time together is co-created.
I have no idea what it will be like until we’re there, together.
And, honestly… neither do you.
There are, however, a few ways to find out…