“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”
This isn’t about your desires, this is about your surrender. Power was my first true love. It was always how someone carried themselves and how they held or relinquished their power. How they acquiesced control, let me bring them to the edge of what they could bear. How they begged me to break them so I could show them how strong they are.
I found language for my sadism when I was eighteen and I began my training at an Old Guard BDSM training chateau where I studied and embodied the art of BDSM. I am intuitive and easily able to get into your head, plant seeds, step back and watch them grow into something devastatingly beautiful. Destruction has never looked so good.
When you are aware of the way that power dynamics play out in the inception of desire, the creation of the world and the systems that surround us, you realize how this awareness can give someone the ability to easily manipulate an individual to their will. I realized my power at a very young age and have spent the last twenty years learning to hone my intuition and my power, and control my sadism. Luckily for you, I have a sharp wit and a well honed blade.
D/s and leather are a lifestyle for me. I live, love and breathe leather. I take my high-protocol submissive training very seriously and enjoy shaping you to bring me precise and elegant pleasure. To teach you exactly where it is that you belong. I have no problem asking for exactly what I want and telling you precisely what to do. I adore intimate encounters with open individuals.
I am particularly fond of exploring secret needs, desires and urges. I enjoy guiding people to their emotional edges, holding the space for them to explore previously uncharted or repressed territory. I enjoy merciless teasing and everything from sensual domination to deep sadism. My BDSM interests are vast and varied. I enjoy natural submission and offering. I seek subjects that trust that I will take them to where they need to be. I like to utilize and torment all of your senses, taking you completely to my will and training you up to my impeccable standards. Training you to be an object for my amusement and my pleasure. You do want to please me, don’t you?
I have a very fulfilling, interdisciplinary life on top of my interests and studies in BDSM. I work at the intersection of tech, community organizing, and public health. I am finishing up a masters degree, I am a writer, an artist, I am part of a BDSM reading group with some of the leading scholars and artists in contemporary BDSM theory, I host BDSM, ritual work and healing gatherings, as well as public workshops and events. I have a modest harem of devoted individuals who serve me and wear my collar (quality, not quantity; do you get it yet?).
Power is relevant to everything that we do. This is why I have no interest in the performance of power for someone else’s desire. I explore what power feels like in the body when wielded responsibly and intelligently. How can we move through pain and integrate new found awareness into our lives? It is through intention that what we call play becomes power, and it is through taking the first step that you can learn the strength in submission.
My play explores the intersection of tenderness and pain. I am sadistic, emphatic, lustful, intelligent and blunt. I am strict, but nurturing and somehow, I always seem to get my way. If there is something that you want from me, you’re going to have to beg.
Trust me, you will not be the same.
Bottoming: I expect my submissives to be well trained, and I don’t ask anything of my submissives that I haven’t tried myself. My old-guard, classical training means I trained from the bottom up, and I’m very very good. I don’t bottom often, but when I do, it’s expensive. Inquire for more information on rates and interests.
Interests (as a Top): Heavy D/s protocol training, tease and denial, edging, foot and boot worship, leather worship, impact play, pet training, human furniture, humiliation, objectification, feminization, financial domination, bondage, cbt, sensory deprivation, mummification, whips!
My hard limits (as a Top): Topping from the bottom, having my boundaries pushed, B.S. (both brown showers and bullshit), race play.