“However you feel about your partner having sex with someone else — whether you’re terrified or turned on (or somewhere in between) — there are many people out there who get off on the thought of their S.O. getting it on with a third party. There’s even a kink devoted to that idea: cuckolding.”
Sexual Fetishes: What You Need to Know
“To an outsider, it can be challenging to understand how fetishes are any different from kinks. In terms of the behaviors involved, the two can definitely overlap but they are distinct. “People who are in the kink community like to discriminate fetish from kink by saying that kink is more focused on the person but the activity is part of the fun,” says Devore…”
read moreFifty Shades of HEALTH: Four surprising benefits of kinky sex
“According to a post-50 Shades survey by Marie Claire, 85 percent of US adults had engaged in at least light-fare play using masks, blindfolds and bondage tools. While there is plenty of room for sexual experimentation when it comes to BDSM, there are also many physical and mental health benefits – when practiced safely and consensually. “
read moreBehind the Power-Play & Psychology of Fetish Photography
” …The image is weird, it’s arresting, and to the judges of the WeFetish kink photography contest, it was irresistibly sexy with its pairing of an outrageously brawny man and an outrageously frilly bike.”
link: http://www.out.com/art-books/2017/2/15/behind-power-play-psychology-fetish-photography
read moreThe Expanding Phenomenon Of Cuckolding: Even Gay Men Are Getting Into It
“In the universe of sexual fantasy, cuckolding — that is, generally speaking, watching while one’s wife or partner has sex with another man, especially one with a larger penis — is nothing new. In fact, the term has been around for centuries…”
link: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joe-kort-phd/the-expanding-phenomenon-_b_11968830.html
read moreDonald and the Dominatrix: How the White House Inspired a BDSM Movement
“Soon after Donald Trump joined the presidential race, a professional dominatrix named Tara Indiana announced her plans to follow suit. “If a carnival barker like Donald Trump can run for president, why not a dominatrix?” she said during an interview with GQ. Her slogan? “Whipping America back into shape, one middle aged white man at a time.” …”
read more5 Truths About Sexual Fetishes (A Dominatrix’s Perspective)
“The stereotype goes that when it comes to sex, men are as simple-minded as dogs. (“Come on, we all know guys are only after one thing!”) Well, as someone with a few years’ experience as a dominatrix and phone sex operator, I’m here to tell you that could not possibly be more wrong…”
read moreSavage Love Letter of the Day: Well-Adjusted & Ready for a Caning
“I’m in my 50s and happily married for 10 years to my second wife. She has known my full sexuality from the start, including that I love being degraded and humiliated by cruel women. I have a very strong foot fetish, enjoy every aspect of cuckoldry, including forced cream pie eating, and similar scenes…”
read moreHow do you feel about switching?
If you want to switch in scene, it’s always a good idea to ask. You wouldn’t just shock someone in the balls with a cattle prod without asking, right? Or at least not without making sure that cattle prods are hard limits. Some Tops will always be Tops, and some bottoms will only want to bottom: that’s totally cool! Many factors might make a person not want switch during a scene, even if it is something that they have done in the past or are interested in doing in the future. Even with a willing partner, the mood has to be right.
read moreINTERVIEW WITH MIRANDA ST-CLAIRE
How did you start exploring your submissiveness in D/s play?
I’ve been playing the role of distressed damsel since childhood. I was always the one who wanted to be kidnapped and held prisoner. My adult self is a (barely) refined version of this young girl, and I’ve been actively exploring D/s since I reached maturity. I like being forced to do what I already want to do!
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